I'm doing it! I've decided! I'm going to trash my dress!
Hopefully, I'll be able to find a photographer who can help me come up with something awesome and unique and metal (at a reasonable price).
Here's a quote from http://www.trashthedress.com/:
"You've made a commitment to your husband. He's your one and only true love, right? Then you'll never need the dress again. And no, your daughter won't wear it in 20-30 years. So you have two choices: 1) Suffocate it in plastic and throw it in a closet, 2) Show your husband how committed you are by trashing the dress, and get some great fun pictures while you do it!"